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Love isn’t just a matter of feeling. It’s a matter of circumstance. Many people have stated that timing is everything, but I believe circumstance is that umbrella which encompasses timing, personal development, and personal stability.

No matter how much you love someone, if their career takes them away, if they’re struggling personally and financially, or if you’re both simply adjusting into two different phases of life, it will most likely not work out or it will be extremely difficult to see eye-to-eye or even spend time with each other. To put it simply, if you can’t keep yourself afloat, stable, or happy just yet, you won’t really have the time to fully cherish someone else in your life.

There are times in life where regardless of how in love you are, the circumstances don’t add up to keep each other in your lives. The circumstances have to be right: when you’re mature enough to handle the commitment, the conflicts and the differences in a relationship, and also when you’re stable enough to have the freedom to dedicate your time, money, and efforts to making another person happy. You have to love yourself first, love your life second, and only then can you fully love and commit to another person and maintain a healthy, long-lasting relationship.

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Importance of Tinder

  • Project Manager: You look stressed out.
  • Me: I'm scrolling through my contact list to find men I can sleep with and I can't find any!
  • Project Manager: That shouldn't be a challenge.
  • Me: Unfortunately, it is. The men I really want to have sex with are not in Singapore or they're untouchables or they're emotional. The rest of the men are just...I'd need to drink a lot before sleeping with them.
  • Project Manager: What happened to your Tinder?
  • Me: I haven't been active recently. And I can't be bothered to go through the whole swiping and chatting and meeting. I can't be bothered to get-to-know-you. i just want to bang. I need to work on my bang list, acquire more talents.
  • Project Manager: Are you sure you're not a man?

Sexual Intimacy > Creative Solutions

  • Art Director: How's the brainstorming session?
  • Me: I'm stuck. I can't crack this brief.
  • Art Director: How come?
  • Me: It's been a while since I slept with anyone. According to Maslow's hierarchy of needs, sexual intimacy ranks the same as food, shelter etc. It actually comes before creative solutions and problems solving. So, I need to get laid to crack the brief.
  • Art Director: That sounds very animalistic.
  • Me: We are all animals. Just because we have brains and emotions that doesn't mean we don't have the same, basic needs.

"It’s not that people can’t love you if you don’t love yourself. It’s that you won’t feel it because it’ll always seem like you don’t deserve it."

But It’s Not a Matter of Deserving (#53: January 11, 2014)

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If I ever do become a mother someday. 

If I ever do become a mother someday. 

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wolfwindcollective:

A letter from Keith Haring, to a young Basquiat.
"Satisfy yourself. Don’t do it for anyone else."

wolfwindcollective:

A letter from Keith Haring, to a young Basquiat.

"Satisfy yourself. Don’t do it for anyone else."

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